Pamela Gillespie

Pamela Ann Gillespie

Sunday, August 14th, 1955 - Thursday, February 27th, 2020
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Pamela A. Gillespie, 64, of Benton Harbor, passed away, Thursday, February 27, 2020 at her home.

A Celebration of Life Service will be announced at a later date. Memorial donations in Pam’s name may be made to Caring Circle Hospice, or The Humane Society of Southwest Michigan Those wishing to sign Pam’s Memory Book online may do so at

Pam was born August 14, 1955 in Coloma, Michigan to Stanley & Joyce (Tetor) Youngman. She graduated from Coloma High School, Class of 1973. On July 1, 1989 she married Thomas Gillespie in St. Joseph. Pam went on to earn her certification in massage therapy and operated Aaahhh Massage for many years. Most recently she had been employed at Grapevine Nursery in Hagar Township. Pam was very proud of her Cherokee Indian Heritage and practiced their Spiritual Beliefs. She was a very generous, giving & caring person, always looking out for others. She especially enjoyed hosting parties at the house for family & friends. In her free time, Pam enjoyed tending to her flower gardens at the house and riding motorcycles with Tom.

Pam is survived by her husband Tom; her son Paul Wayne Oliver of Coloma; her mother Lela “Joyce” Weber of Edwardsburg, MI; three grandchildren Justin, Christian, and Alexis; her sister Kathy Jo Avila of Edwardsburg; her brother Stanley “Buddy” Youngman of Edwardsburg, and several nieces & nephews. She was preceded in death by her father Stanley Youngman and her step-father Larry Weber.
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Sandra james

Posted at 08:54pm
Pam was my half sister and I just now found out about her passing, she was careing,loveing,nice person I was very happy to have her as a member of my family. My heart and prayers are with my step mother Joyce weber and the rest of the family. Sandy weber James.

Chana and Robin Kniebes

Posted at 10:59am
Pam was always smiling, helpful and loved being surrounded by plants and flowers. Our family was blessed to know you and your sweet spirit will be missed.

Erika haas

Posted at 08:23am
Pam, what a sweet lady you were, always smiling and joking. I am sad to hear of your passing. You will be missed. God bless you my dear!

Kurt Heppler

Posted at 10:52pm
To me. Pam is the Lady in 'Lochinvar*. RIP Pammy we love you. With Love Kurt Kyle Kamen and Kristi

patricia weber Posted at 11:04pm

Pam, may you rest in peace❤️ sending all my love and condolences to your family and your mother Joyce. Patty Weber

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